A Reflection on Pain

It’s easy to minimize a person’s hurt without understanding the nature of pain. People often like to categorize how much a person should or shouldn’t hurt about things. For example, when someone is upset about something, they say, “At least you’re not paralyzed, or starving in Africa.” While it’s imperative to be grateful for what we have, I think people often mistaken the nature of pain, when they ‘categorize’ in this way. A relationship break up can hurt more than struggling with cancer (true story). The criteria for how much something hurts is not dependent on the thing itself. It is dependent on 2 things:

1. The strength of the attachment.

2. The level of Divine help.

Therefore to minimize the devastation of pain:

1. Don’t be attached to (dependent on) temporary things.

2. Seek Divine help.

And don’t assign judgement for people’s pain.

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  1. Mashallah!
    may we remember the words you share with us, and may we carry this wisdom of knowledge, the sunnah and the qur’an through our character and our actions.

    Jazak Allah khair sister Yasmin

  2. I`m trying myself to detach…trying very very…Allah please help me.

  3. May Allah help us DETACH & purify our hearts and guide us to His Straight Path

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