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  • ShireenHanief

    how to download this?pls help me out..

    • Haura Malina

      you can use IDM. once you open the page that have audio, it will automatically popup “download with IDM” and you can click on it to download.

      • Shireen_Hanief

        Wat is IDM..Help out pls.. i am need of this videos..Subhanallah too good..

        • Azri_248

          internet download manager.=)

  • Muntafia

    Is their any way i can download all these lectures…

    • Ferras

      I use a recorder to record them.

  • Anonymous

    mashaAllah u have a beautiful voice, and i appreciate what you have said, it of course makes much sense. but i am sure that you have never had your heart broken. only one who carries around a shattered heart can understand that pain and the agony that follows. while i still pray and remember Allah daily, still try to read Quran daily, still teach my kids about this beautiful deen and its beautiful Creator, and even thank Him for what happened, for rescuing me from my own blind desires, even then i know the person i was is dead. she was a good person, but she is no more. what i am now is a nothing, an empty shell, unable to find any meaning or beauty in this life. i just dont see the point of it anymore, and if i could find the power switch to turn myself off i’d do it in an instant. life simply is no longer worth living. Allah Himself has not glanced at this illusory dunya since He made it, because it is so worthless. and yet here i am, having to live in it day in, day out. This kind of talk should really only be given by people who have had their hearts smashed to bits. because only they really understand.

    • Shireen_Hanief

      Si nuun..Very true sis.. i really agree with u.. very true..

    • Muslimah

      Salam Alaykum,

      It must be so hard for you but have patience brother. Sabr and thikr and steadfast imaann which you are already doing, is a cure. So keep going and remain positive. Allah (swt) knows what is best.

    • http://www.facebook.com/mxfisher Miaa Fisher

      May Allah make it easy for you and increase you in faith and make you among the grateful, Nuun. Ameen.

    • Mounia

      Life sometimes is shattered, and seems to be forgotten. But the truth is that the reason why it it shattered is because it is remember. what sins do we commit, in what rank? When Allah loves someone he tests him the most. Th prophet peace be upon him, endured so much, and his life might of been shattered from your perspective but for him it was a journey to enclose himself with Allah. If you want as everyone wants, someone that has been through what you have been through and much more then the prophet(s.a.w) is whom to go to. Follow his sunnah and strengthen the bond you have with Allah and his prophet. Then you will surely feel alive.

    • Maryam

      I agree with you, there are things in life that in order to talk about them you have to have lived them.,Life experience which is mostly given by the years we live, is the best way to gain knowledge.I do not know what you are going through it loos like you have encounter great pain and loss,, regardless of what the reasons are you should try to get professional help , in order to be able to stop the feeling of unworthiness i sense in your words.Many people have encountered, great losses and great pain, also at many times do to life hardships, we lose hope and our faith becomes weak, but we have to give it time and things with time, prayer and hope will get better,, I do not know you but i hope you are able to overcome whatever is causing the despair and loneliness i readfrom your words,

    • Asmaa V.

      Nuun, I completely understand what you are saying. In my case, I feel like I am only now discovering who I really am because through the difficulties I had as a child at home and school (I was bullied) I only put up an act..for so long. I feel like sometimes that’s really what life outside our home is about – acting. I know that I only get a glimpse of the real “free” me on occasion. I feel truly incarcerated within this dunya and I do long for the day that He will set me free in His Presence. Hang in there. I have children, too. We’re here but for a short time and remember the times when we are closest to Him – in our prostrations and in the middle of the night. Also, cling to the hadeeth that says that if you are planting a tree and the Day of Judgement comes, keep planting…meaning, everything counts. Nothing will go unaccounted for. That in itself heals pain <3

      • Asmaa V.

        An important thing that I need to remember that I want to remind you of as well is to have Husn adh-Dhann Billah. We have to remind ourselves often to have a good opinion about our Creator. This journey happens for a reason and there are so many lessons learned through living in this world that we need to truly be able to value the life to come. I know that for me the trials I went through for years were a wake up call for me. They allowed me to see people for what they are – just people that do not matter and that contradict themselves, hurt others, are egotistical, etc. Remember also that there is enjoyment in this world. The Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wa sallam) himself enjoyed many things, including the beauty of women, ‘oud, and salah. But all of this is for a reason…if we use this dunya to reach Him than it is not an illusion anymore. If we use this dunya and live this dunya for people and material gain..we’ve lost the main objective and we’ve joined the group of those fooled. You seem to me like someone who has been shaken and now realizes that not much in this dunya is worth it but yet you are continuing your work as a parent by being a teacher. As much as our hearts hurt, we also have to allow ourselves to feel happy and it is through His Remembrance and hope in the afterlife soon to come that we will find that peace and hope. May Allah heal our broken hearts. Ameen

  • Rafia

    wow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! amazing talk, mashAllah!!!

    • Iemirae

      do i need to subcribe and pay to listen?? please help…my heart have just been broken by someone i trust,and it really2 hurts…im a student anyway.i tried to be nice and act normally but it is soo hard….

  • Irma

    good stuff, useful.
    Nuun, i agree with you to some points, but when we feel that there is no point anymore, do you know what that statment mean? it means that the porpouse of life was not a right one at the time because we know why we live and for whom we live, things that happens to us on the way of life its just matters that we Can deal with.
    everythgn happens for a reason, which is individual to all of us, and its only us who have to find that reason, till we find it then we can past the test of life.
    he who remebers Allah with all his heart will find that everythgn other than allah will leave his heart (yahya bin muadh).

  • Irma

    ”Sometimes Allah doesn’t change your situation because He wants to change your heart.”

  • http://perennialreflection.wordpress.com/ Ra’shaan Muhammad

    Salam Alaykum Sister Yasmin,

    On an intellectual level, I agree with you: as Muslims, I don’t think we can resign ourselves to a nihilistic world wherein even the presence (and the apparent prevalence) of evil, wrong, hardships, etc are devoid of some greater purpose, inner meaning, or greater truth; and for this reason, the needle – the pain and the panacea within – serves a purpose. It reminds me of Kahlil Gibran’s “The Prophet” and his piece within On Pain:

    “Your pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses
    your understanding.

    Much of your pain is self-chosen.

    It is the bitter potion by which the physician within
    you heals your sick self.

    Therefore trust the physician, and drink his remedy
    in silence and tranquillity:

    For his hand, though heavy and hard, is guided by
    the tender hand of the Unseen.”

    However, on the experiential and existential level, even knowing this, even being aware of and even accepting Allah’s decree doesn’t necessarily prevent one’s heart from breaking or from becoming hardened and darkened; it sometimes doesn’t necessarily stop the encroachment of cynicism or pessimism because we still have to live in worlds, in realities, and in communities that are quite far removed from any Prophetic ideals and that have many portals to dark places. Sometimes, even knowing who the physician is – God in this case – and even knowing His knowledge encompasses what’s best for us still might not take the pain away, might not assuage it even. The cognizant patient can still cry after being pricked.

    One can certainly has a right to be angry at creation at times because anger has its place: even the Prophet (pbuh) got angry, though was never wrathful, and even al-Ghazali has a place for the irascible part of our nature. (I don’t think your point was that there isn’t a place for anger though); and one can be in a state of purgatory, where they are neither mad at Allah nor creation: their hearts are just broken as a result of some happenstance, an “act of God” or an “act of man.” In any case, I don’t think any explanation or rationalization is ever sufficient because it inevitably trivializes the one who is suffering the heart brake in the first place.

    Certain elements of the Muslim community have rent my heart asunder, and though I perceive wisdom at the end of all things, the pain is still there and will probably remain for quite some time. “Fate smashes us as though we were made of glass/And never are our shards put together again.”

    Hearts may indeed heal…but not without some scarring…

    Jazak’Allah Kheir for the wonderful lecture.

    Salaam/Peace

    ~Ra’shaan Muhammad

  • sister striving for deen

    Assalam wa alaykum wa rahmatula wa barakatu sister,
    I am stunned by this lecture in how it answered all my questions and doubts mashallah and really believe this came to my attention for a reason and good timing aswell and I would like to thank you for delivering a perfect speech that seemed literally tailor made to me :) jaza khul khairah may Allah reward you immensly and shower his mercy on you inshaa Allah. I love the way you use the metaphors/daily life examples and scenarios to help explain the Allahs aims for us. I would like to know if Allah can remove the love for someone if you know it’s know it’s not meant to be and he has taken it away from you leaving you hurting and desiring for the persons love in return. You have in some ways answered this question but I am just abit unsure why I still have feelings for this person why praying that Allah can remove this love for this person so I can stop hurting and use my time more wisely on reducing thinking about that person and more on other things. In some ways I think that Allah has not taken this away and granted my dua is because I am at my best when in pain in terms of my ibadah but I’m confused if this ‘love’ is actual real or just an attachment. This dua to remove the love for someone is not what I would of wanted but see it as a best resolution to my problems and the situation. Please try and answer my queries and put straight forward any misunderstandings I may have expressed. One last question is how do I know if this pain is a blessing or punishment when I have mixed reactions to the pain lol starting from the 2 year old and Alhamdulilah a better perception of an adulst view to the vaccine thanks to you. I’m sorry if my questions seem unclear please do ask if you are unsure with anything i’ve written. I would appreciate any opinions you may have and I look forward to hearing from you soon inshaa Allah. Take care :)

    • returning brother

      Dear sister striviing for deen,

      i totally agree with your post on this issue as i am going through the same thing as you. Everyday is a struggle for me, sleeping at night is a problem, and when it is about time to wake up for fajr prayer, you refuse to wake up to face the reality again. Alhamdulillah that was my situation 3 months ago. Although I am better now, the pain is still there i can get the feeling of being cheated of my chest, the questions why would she do such thing to me, what could i’ve done better, what did i do wrong. Alhamdulillah the only time i feel at peace is when i pray. but i just want to get the whole thing out of my chest. I dont want to fill myself with hatred, revenge and anger. Ill let Allah do His work for me and put everything back to its proper place and hopefully portray or show something towards the girl who broke my heart into pieces and hopefully she will regret f what she did and make amends to the things she did. I know what i am asking is unreasonable but its the only method that i think can cure me. Thank you :)

  • Ann

    Yes Rashaan. Scarring is still there as a reminder and warning to thread carefully in future in the matters of the heart, as it is delicate and easily broken. Nuun, you are so right. I once suffered the same fate and couldn”t see the light at the end of the tunnel. After many many years my heart healed, let my guards down and it happened again! Subhanallah, like you I realise that Allah rescued me from my blind desires and I have never stopped thanking Him since. As Irma said Allah didnt change the situation but changed my heart and thus allowed Him in and filled the void. I dont expect from anyone anymore and am much more contented.

  • Hajrah

    How do i download the audio?

  • http://twitter.com/angelachase74 Angela Chase

    I really wish I could listen to this talk and I have a podbean account but still can’t access it, I wonder why? I recently had my heart broken. It shattered into a million pieces and I’m left like the first commenter said, like an empty shell. Initially, I felt like I was going to die but I carried on and persevered because I realized Alhamdulillah that time is a great healer and I just have to wait. I knew that even though I felt those things I couldn’t just surrender to them and let those feelings consume me but at the same time I didn’t want to punish myself for feeling that way. I just let it pass along but on the positive side, it made me truly cling on to the only thing I knew that was real, Allah SWT. The only One I can rely on and seek help and comfort. I cried, prayed only to Him and I felt so grateful that even though before this happened, I knew I love Allah SWT but after this, I truly sensed that love, I felt it deep in my heart because to lose someone you love and when you feel so down, you truly appreciate that there is something else that can lift you out of that depression.

    I also realize that whoever the person is that your heart is broken after whether it is due to death of spouse, relationship breakdown etc a heart break is a heart break and it goes through its process or steps; so it comforts me to know it is not just because of losing that particular person but my broken heart is actually going through a natural process and it will heal eventually.

    But please can someone tell me how I can listen to the above talk so that maybe I can learn a few more things. Jzk.

    • mehvish

      I have reported the problem and it should be sorted really soon.

    • Yasmin Mogahed

      You can go here to subscribe and have access to all the One Legacy Podcasts: http://www.yasminmogahed.com/serenity-archives/

    • Londongal121

      I totally agree with u angela.. i was getting over heartbreak only to find out 2months later his parents had got his wedding fixed and is this weekend.. its just been heartbreak after heartbreak its just turned into depression and it hurts so much. The only one who i can talk to and understands is Allah.. i cry and cry to him asking him for his mercy and i hope it will come soon

  • Fitri_h04

    Salam Sister,

    I can hear your audio account, what shall i do?
    Thank you very much in advance :)

    Wassalamualaikum

  • Hasnabiti

    How do so many of you reach that place of patience, peace and acceptance? And how long will it take me to get there? is the question that goes through my mind every day dear brothers and sister please pray for me im a single mother of six going through so much pain and anger i talk to myself constantly and not forgetting Allah thanking him over over for whatever he wrote for, but broken heart broken promise is not easy thing to just forget and move on thank you Nuun for sharing your stories May Almighty Allah heal all of us…

  • Liyana

    I can’t seem to listen to the podcasts as they ask for a username and password. Where can I get this?

    Thank you.

    Salam.

  • Ay5h4_pink

    how do i listen this lecture?

    • Anonymous

      Go to the homepage and click on ‘Get Access’ at the bottom of the page. Subscribe to get access to all podcast for a year and you will have a username and password emailed to you, insha Allah.
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  • Amnaf95

    can you please upload this lecture again? there’s no audio link to it. or whoever has downloaded it, can they tell me the link? thank you.

  • guest

    does work???

  • guest

    IT DOES NOT WORK – i meant

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